In the Wild World of dating, getting a first date is only the beginning. What’s really important is to impress her and have her coming back for more. It’s about learning the subtle art of women and the one thing that they always crave – Adventure! Something new and exciting, and that’s exactly what you need to provide every time to have her begging for you.
Time to look a little extra flashy. Be that guy women want to be seen with! It’s not about your looks, but how you present yourself. Make it look like you care about yourself and your appearance, women like to know you’re making the effort. Try new cologne, a bright tie matching the theme of your adventure, and keep it classy. It is always better to be over dressed than under dressed for your outing. Even something as simple as going to a movie seems more exciting when you wear a fine suit and make your lady feel special for being with someone as classy as you. Before you go on the date you have to get the date, so make sure you also dress your best when asking her out. It’s good to give her key details to get her interested, but keep part of it a mystery to increase the allure of the unknown.
An exotic setting is the key to going above and beyond the rest of the dating pool. This is where you show your creativity and romantic intentions. The best guideline is to do something you have never done before on a date. Let the internet be your guide. Are there any spas near you? What local entertainment is there? Shows are always a safe bet, they’re usually not in town that long so it won’t be something she’s done before. If you really want to thrill her, look for shows with a dark sexy theme like burlesque.
For anyone over the age of 20, you can also dip into the nostalgic events around you like the Circus, bowling alley, local fair or skating rink. If you haven’t done it in more than 10 years, chances are neither has she and you’ll appear the perfect romantic gentleman.
Whatever you choose, do your homework about it. It takes 15 minutes to read up on your chosen adventure. It gives you the opportunity to look smart and engaged in her and what you’re experiencing together. Be her tour guide, women like a man who can take control.
Keep The Good Times Rolling
“Take her to new locations to make her happy”
The most important part of your journey together is keeping it fun. Whatever you end up doing, you want to make sure you both are having a good time. Look out for boredom and strike it down like the mighty foe it is. You don’t ever want to look bored yourself, it gives her the impressions you’re not interested in her, or only interested for sex. Even if you want to make it to the bedroom, remember to reward her and you will in turn be rewarded. Listen to her suggestions, she just might surprise you and take you for an adventure of your own!