Playing hard to get is the single more annoying thing a woman can do. If she doesn’t want you, she should just come out and say so. You can take it. If she does, you’d like to move things along. These four little tips will help you tell if she’s playing hard to get, or if she’s really not interested.
Makes You Wait for Every Reply
Sometimes conversations are slow because she’s busy. Even a woman who loves to hookup doesn’t always have the time to hang around online all day. Occasional slow replies are probably genuine. What you want to be on the lookout for are consistently very slow replies. If she’s always making you wait five or six minutes between replies she’s probably faking it.
She Competes with Other Women
If you want to test how casually she feels, mention other women to her. If she really doesn’t care about you that much, you’ll find that she doesn’t care about other women you bring up. If you mention a coworker Lauren, for example, a jealous (that is, interested) woman will want to know about Lauren. What’s she like? Do you have fun with her? If she cares enough to ask these questions you can be sure that she’s checking out the competition.
Asks for More than One Way to Contact You
Does she have your online profile, and your Facebook, and your Twitter? If she has multiple ways of keeping in contact with you than she’s interested. If you’re nothing to her, she wouldn’t care enough to keep track of all your different contact forms. Having more ways to contact you gives her more ways to ignore you while she’s “busy.”
Is Never Free “Right Now”
She totally wants to hang out with you. She can’t wait. She’s just not free right now. She’s also not free this weekend, or next month, or you’ll have to play it by ear. She’s clear that she wants to hang out with you, but she never has a clear idea of when that would be. This is the best sign that she isn’t interested in you. A lot of guys see this and think that it means that she’s interested. She wants to make sure you don’t give up. She must be playing hard to get, right?
Sorry, but after a month or so you have to face the facts. She doesn’t like you, she just likes the attention. She wants to keep you dangling on her hook. She gets all the confidence boost that comes with knowing you want her without actually have to date you. If a woman really wants you she’ll make time for you. She’ll do it sooner rather than later.
A lot of guys aren’t able to say no to a woman who’s playing a long game. If you see the first three signs in the lady you’re chatting up then you should push on. She wants more than she’s willing to admit. If those signs are lacking, and the last is present you should save yourself the trouble. You can browse lots of other profiles online. There’s no reason to waste your time with a woman who doesn’t want you enough.