Even though they’ve joined sites that focus on having sex and hooking up, some women can still be bent out of shape when you try to ask them for a hookup. You need your opening pitch to be smooth and classy even if you’re asking for something naughty. The ticket to getting those flings you’ve been craving is to write a good hookup request. These tips should get you on the right track right away.
If you’re just looking for a hookup don’t act like you’re in love. You want to make this seem like a fun opportunity that you can both enjoy. You like to hookup, she likes to hookup. Together, you can have a great night and no one has to worry that they’re going to get their heart broken. You have to work five times as hard to have a one night stand with a woman who wants a relationship as you do to meet a lady who really just wants sex.
Look at it this way: her wanting a relationship is your deal breaker. You’re not missing out on an opportunity for sex by being honest. You’re weeding out all the women who would waste your time and not give you what you want in the first place. Honesty is the way to keep moving forward.
Make It Clear What You Can Do for Her
Be sure that your hookup request answers the question “What can he do for me?” Don’t be vulgar in describing the way you’re going to go down on her. You want to make it clear that that service is available, should she want it. Mention the toys that you have at your disposal, and remember to keep it focused on her pleasure. If she wants a man willing to wear fingertip clit massagers for her, she should give you a call.
If you want more of a date with an assured hookup situation, this is easier to get. Show off with where you invite her. Maybe she’d like a night in the hottest dance club in town. You could show her the best evening of her life and then end it with the best sex she’s had. Make it clear that you’re willing to make her happy during this whole encounter, and you’ll see that she’s a lot more willing to entertain the idea. Too many men go for the “You’re really beautiful, it makes me want to have sex with you, let’s meet up”. You have to give her a reason to want you.
Be Specific with Time
The key to really ending this message is the call to action. Don’t say that she can hit you up anytime. Tell her that the next time she’s lonely on a Friday or Saturday night after seven, she should send you a message and you’ll see if you can make it. Plans that are made to happen “someday” or “anytime” will never happen at any time on any day. If you add specificity, you’ll stick in her mind and she’ll be confident knowing when to call.