All men know it: women are hard to read. Some are so notoriously hard to read that it can actually cause panic. Does she like what you’re saying or not? Is she really looking forward to spending time with you? Having uncertainties like these can contribute in a very large way to whether or not your dates go well. Being able to tell with certainty that she’s serious about you takes away a lot of the stress. Like we said, reading women is hard. However, there are a few telltale signs that will let you know if she’s legitimately interested in what you’re offering, so keep reading. We’ve put together a definitive list to help you out.
She Includes You with Her Friends and Family
A woman isn’t going to bring home just any guy to meet and spend time with her family and friends. If she’s asked you to come visit the parents, it’s a positive sign that she thinks her family would like you and vice versa. The same applies with her friends. If she’s having doubts about you or is thinking about dumping you, she’s not going to take the time to introduce you to those that are closest to her. She’s making an investment by letting you meet the other influential people in her life.
She’s Brought Up the Topic of Living Together
Again, if she’s not serious about you and the relationship you’ve got together, she’s not going mention living together. This is such a huge subject that if she does bring it up, you know she considers you long-term material. The same applies if you’re the one that brought up the topic and she was receptive to the idea. If she’s not serious about your relationship, she’ll shoot it down immediately or give a noncommittal answer.
She Wants to Know Everything About You
Simple curiosity on her behalf is a great sign. It means she’s interested in your life and your past. Little details like what music you enjoy and why give her little glimpses into what makes you who you are, and those are the kinds of questions that women ask when they’re becoming emotionally invested.
She Worries About You
If you come down with the flu and she’s constantly checking in with you or by your side, it should go without saying that it’s a good sign. It means that she’s concerned about your welfare, enough so that she’s spending large parts of her day wondering if you’re okay. This is a good thing for a number of different reasons. If she’s worried about you, she’s become emotionally attached to you. Just remember to show her the same consideration the next time she’s not feeling well.
She Bails on Other Commitments to Be With You
If she’s bailed on a night out with her friends or a family event just to spend time with you, it’s a better than good indication that she’s legitimately interested in where the relationship is going. She’s showing you she’d rather be with you than anyone else, and if that isn’t a good sign we don’t know what is.