It’s not enough for your goals section of your profile to be filled with things you want to do. You have to fill it with things that women want you to want to do. The whole point of a profile is that it’s a sales pitch to all the ladies who come looking. If you want to score, you have to learn to tell them what they want to hear. That starts with filling your goals section with exciting things. She wants to be with a man who wants to have these three goals.
Learn Another Language
For extra points you should make the language you want to learn either French or Italian. German just doesn’t tug at ladies’ heartstrings the way that a romantic language does. Let her think that you want to have a skilled tongue, and she’ll be picturing all the fun things that the two of you can do together. You’ll get English to Italian dictionaries, and you’ll make Italian food together at home, and so forth.
You don’t have to actually do any of these things. If you want to have a fling with a woman you just have to sell the idea that she’s going to have a great time. If she thinks of all these scenarios in her head of you two talking, and dancing, and learning another language then those are the feelings that she’ll associate with you. You’re already ahead of the game in her fantasies and you haven’t even done anything yet.
Become a Home Chef
You don’t even have to take cooking classes these days to become a home chef. With more men hosting cooking shows than ever before, all you need is access to a television and a kitchen to become a great cook in record time. That’s leading more and more men to add “home chef” to their online profile. Throw together a quick stir-fry and then turn on the TV to impress your lady. Sure, you’re making a ten-minute meal for her tonight, but six months from now she won’t know that she’s not at the best restaurant in town. There won’t be a six months from now for a fling, however. You can just run the same lines on the next woman who takes the profile bait.
Explore Every Bar in a Neighborhood
This goal makes you seem like a fun, relaxed guy who loves to try new things. Exploring every bar in the neighborhood is a promise to get out there and find the best of the best. You can catalogue the greatest restaurants, find the best menu items, and have a blast every weekend. It also means that you always have a fall back night out plan. In real life you might have your favorite haunt every Friday and Saturday nights, but you can step out of it for a date every now and then and convince your fling that you’re serious about seeing every place.