You’ve Developed Feelings: Now What?

Sometimes you start dating a woman with no real intention of developing feelings for her. However, one day you may notice that somewhere down the line that you’ve actually developed feelings for her. This is fine if she is onboard with being in a relationship and also has feelings for you as well. However, many times a man may fall for a woman who only wants to date and doesn’t want anything more serious or exclusive than that. This can be stressful for many men and you may wonder what to do in this type of situation. Luckily, you may be able to get yourself together and to handle things without much issue if you recognize your feelings early on. Find Out If She Wants to Date You Before you start blurting out your feelings, you should find out if she has feelings for you. Some women may not tell you that they have feelings for you in fear of scaring you away. If you don’t want to ask her outright, you can give her various what-if scenarios and gauge her responses to see if she really does have feelings for you. For example, you can ask her how she thinks the two of you would be in a serious…

Why Your Profile Shouldn’t Read like a Resume

You want to make yourself look good. You want the ladies to know exactly who they’re dealing with when you come online. You want to talk up all your good points, showcase your accomplishments, and end the interview ASAP. Under “great weakness” you said that you “care too much.” You’re trying really hard to impress these ladies, but you’re not gunning for a job here. That’s why your profile isn’t catching the right eyes. If You’re so Great, Why Are You Single? You don’t want to undersell yourself. However, if you just keep piling up the great talk about yourself you’re going to have to answer this question. You’re clearly a great guy, so why haven’t you settled down with a billionaire supermodel? When you’re writing a resume the whole point is to talk yourself up. You want to leave the hiring manager flabbergasted that you aren’t already working for their competitors. That’s because resumes focus on what you’ve already done. Profiles should focus on what you’re going to do. Flings Focus on the Future To put this bluntly: a woman looking for a fling doesn’t care what you’ve done before. She cares about what you can do with her. If you’ve got a doctorate degree doesn’t matter. Whether you…

Why Your Compliments Are Coming off as Insincere

When messaging women online or meeting with them in bars or clubs, one of the easiest ways to make them like you is by complimenting them and making them feel special. If you have been out on the scene a lot, you may have run into the scenario where your compliment doesn’t go as planned and the woman you were trying to talk to ends up getting offended or walking away. Even with the best intentions, sometimes your compliments come off as being rude or insincere. Learning how to avoid this situation will go a long way in helping you pick up more women. It Sounds Like It Came Out of a Book If you are in the habit of using pick up lines from a book you read or an article you saw on the internet, you might want to stop. Women can read the same books and sites that you do, so if you’re stealing a line from someone or something else then they will almost always know. Not only are you likely to come off as being kind of gross, she will also probably recognize that you’re being unoriginal. Nothing is more frustrating to a girl than being approached with a line that she thinks you probably…

Why You Shouldn’t Be Afraid to Chase That Perfect 10

Sometimes you see a woman who makes you stare. She’s out of your league. She’s out of everyone’s league. George Clooney himself would have to reflect that some women are just too perfect even for him. There’s not a guy on Earth good enough to have a piece of that, and that’s exactly why you shouldn’t be afraid to ask her out. She’s Probably Only Dated Jerks The thing about gorgeous, 10/10, perfect women is that they often don’t have a lot of dating experience. The guys who have asked her out are probably the self-entitled jerks. You know exactly the type we’re talking about. They’re so self-centered that it never even crosses their mind that she’s too good for them. They see a pretty toy that they can show off to their friends. They think that they’re hot stuff so they ask her out without a care in the world. Sooner or later, a dateless woman is going to accept anyone who comes along. This means that a queen among women spends years going from thoughtless, self-centered jerk to self-centered jerk. She doesn’t know what it’s like to have a nice guy who appreciates her. It’s not her fault. After all, every nice guy with half a brain to…

Why You Should Digitally Enhance Your Profile Pictures

Having good looking pictures of yourself on your dating profile is one of the most important steps to having success with catching the interest of women you want to meet online. Women probably will not bother responding to your message if they look at your profile and see mediocre pictures. You want to make sure you have the best pictures possible, and you may be surprised to know that one of the best ways to do this is to edit your photos. Digitally enhancing your profile pictures can help you put your best foot forward when trying to meet women, and there are several reasons why you should consider it. Minimizing Your Flaws We all have parts of our appearance we aren’t proud of. One of the best effects of digitally editing your pictures is that you can edit out the flaws that bother you and that you think are not attractive to women. Of course, you don’t want to make yourself look like an entirely different person but there is still a lot you can edit to make yourself look better. Girls do it all the time, so you shouldn’t feel weird about editing your own pictures. If you have a mole or freckle you don’t like, editing it…

Why You Should Avoid Sending Shirtless or Nude Photographs

There have probably been plenty of times when you have been tempted to send a shirtless or nude picture to a girl you met in a bar or on a dating site, and while this may be well received by some women it is usually a better idea to keep these pictures to yourself. Sending a shirtless picture or a picture of your junk too early on or to the wrong woman can seriously harm your chances with her. Besides that obvious reason, there are plenty of other reasons why you should avoid sending these kinds of revealing pictures to women. She Didn’t Specifically Ask It is usually best to avoid sending nude or somewhat nude pictures of yourself to women unless they seem interested in it. The worst thing you could possibly do is to send a naked picture to a woman unprompted, especially if you haven’t had sex already and especially if you do not know her very well. The chances that she’ll react negatively to getting a random picture of your semi-naked or naked body are far too high. More often than not you will drive a woman off and make her stop responding to you quite quickly if you send her revealing pictures of yourself, so…

Why the Women You Meet Online May Be Better Matches for You

Online dating might seem intimidating at first if you are used to pub-crawling in an attempt to meet women. You might not even think it is worth it, especially if you have heard from your friends who might have had bad experiences with online dating. No matter what you’ve heard before, online dating is a great way of meeting women and one of the biggest advantages is that the women you meet are much more likely to be great matches for you. This might seem strange, but as you start to date online you will realize that you’re able to meet women who are a much better match for you. The reasons for this are simple, but you may not have thought of it before. You Can See Their Interests Right Away One of the biggest advantages of meeting women online is the use of their profile. By reading a woman’s dating profile, you can quickly and easily see what she likes and what her interests and hobbies are. You can easily avoid messaging women that you have nothing in common with. Reading profiles and finding women who have similar interests and messaging them exclusively is a great way to make sure that you meet women who you will enjoy…

Why Pets Are a Bad Gift Idea

Once in awhile, you’re going to run across a girl that just really wants to be spoiled when you meet up with her on a hookup. This means that if you start window shopping, she might fall in love with the little puppy in the pet shop…and want you to buy it for her. First of all, this is an awful idea on about twenty levels, but for some reason, some guys fall for this and really end up buying the dog for. This sort of thing, along with any other sort of pet as a gift, is an awful idea for your hookup, and there are a lot of reasons why. You Might End Up Stuck With It Unsurprisingly, a lot of women decide later on that they really didn’t want that cute, fluffy puppy as a pet. This is why it’s usually a good idea to just never do it in the first place, because when they break off the hookups with you, they might end up shoving the dog off onto you as well. This means that you’re getting a lot of responsibility that you really didn’t want…and obviously, that’s not something that you’re really going to want to deal with. You don’t want this kind of…

When Should You Approach Her?

Deciding when to approach a woman can sometimes be tricky. You want to make sure that you come in at just the right time. You also want to make sure that there is nothing that stands in your way of making a good first impression. Wait Until Her Friends Are Preoccupied When you see a woman that you want to try getting to know, you should wait until her friends are busy before deciding to approach her. Some women like to show off and give men a hard time when their friends surround them. One of the reasons is because they want to appear cool in front of their friends. Another reason is because one or more of her friends may not find you attractive or desirable and the woman you’re interested in may feel pressured to turning you away to please her friends. When you see a woman that you want to try picking up, keep a close eye on her, but keep your distance. Try to make eye contact with her. If she stares back at you and she seems interested, smile at her but don’t approach her. If you notice that her friends wander off or that she moves away from them for a while, you should…

What It Actually Means to Date Someone

Somewhere in the sands of time the proper idea of dating got lost. Everything got so much more serious while still being branded the same way. While everyone seems to have some sort of idea on what dating is, no one has been able to define it consistently. But basically if you put all of the ideas together you’ve got a mess, so let’s clean it up by throwing down some basics of what it actually means to date someone. You’re Mildly Committed When you’re dating someone you’re sort of signing a little verbal pact with a kiss. This is a person that you’re going to do abnormal things with. Kissing, sleeping together, and generally spending a crazy amount of time together isn’t something you’d do to just anyone. So declaring that, “Yes, we are dating” means that you reserve those strange habits for only the other person. Those strange habits do vary from person to person, so just to make sure that you’re not reading the wrong language, talk it over before you really start the action. But Not Totally Committed As we said, you are committed to the different rituals of being a couple doesn’t mean that you totally believe in all of them. You might be comfortable…

Top Three Habits to Avoid

Whether or not you want to admit it, the way you present yourself to women is important. You might want to stick it to the man and be who you want to be and say screw the rest, but that doesn’t work out too well in the dating scene. Checking your attitude at the door is important, but you should also check any bad habits that you might have as well. These might be putting women off hitting you up, and these three are the top ones to steer clear of that just drive the ladies crazy. Nail Biting You might be a nervous person. You might be the kind of guy who’s always picking at something, but the hard truth is that ladies aren’t into that. If you need to get that out of your system before you go out, then go ahead. To be honest, trimming your nails down before hitting the bar every night might be a good plan so that you aren’t messing with them. Bitten, ragged nails tell her that you’re inherently anxious and that you don’t take care of yourself. You don’t want her to think that you’re some kind of dirty hobo, do you? Make sure to keep your nails clean and filed,…

Three Ways to Improve Your Posture

If you’ve been trying and trying to flirt and haven’t had any success, the issue might be as simple as how you’re presenting yourself. Women are picky with the guys they’ll be dating, so don’t be surprised if you get snubbed for another guy quite a few times before you meet the right one. While patience is a virtue, though, there’s no shame in speeding up the process a bit. Put yourself on the fast track to success by following these three simple steps to improving your posture, and remember that it only takes two weeks of doing a behavior to make it a habit. Lose the Slouch Having a slouched back and shoulders makes you seem passive and forgettable, as well as insecure. A woman who’s looking for a man doesn’t have any time for a guy who’s too vulnerable, so you’re likely to get passed by for someone on the more macho side. Even if it’s more comfortable to slouch down in your seat, make the effort to sit up straight. It makes you seem confident and respectable, and more women are going to flock to you. They’ll see you as successful and a real go-getter, so despite your personality you’ll already have an in with the ladies.…

Three Things to Cut from Your About Me Section Right Away

There’s a lot of pressure to fill out your online dating profiles. One liner responses make you seem boring, unimaginative, and worse. It seems like you don’t care about online dating. Too many guys rushing to fill out their profile add these three topics to pad it out. These kill your chances with the ladies. Cut these from your profile, and you’ll have more messages coming in than ever before. The Family Roll Call It’s one thing for your potential dates to know where you come from and what you represent. Too often men feel the need to go into extreme detail here. How many brothers you have and what they all do for a living does not matter. That rich uncle you have? Good for attracting gold diggers and not much else. Listing everyone you’re related to or almost related to isn’t going to help your case here. You should have your “About Me” be about you as you are right now. You’re a product of your upbringing, but that’s not what you should advertise to the women who come to visit your profile. This is especially true if you’re looking for casual sex or a short-term fling. These ladies do not need to know about the family you…

Three Things to Add to Your Goals Section to Seem Interesting

It’s not enough for your goals section of your profile to be filled with things you want to do. You have to fill it with things that women want you to want to do. The whole point of a profile is that it’s a sales pitch to all the ladies who come looking. If you want to score, you have to learn to tell them what they want to hear. That starts with filling your goals section with exciting things. She wants to be with a man who wants to have these three goals. Learn Another Language For extra points you should make the language you want to learn either French or Italian. German just doesn’t tug at ladies’ heartstrings the way that a romantic language does. Let her think that you want to have a skilled tongue, and she’ll be picturing all the fun things that the two of you can do together. You’ll get English to Italian dictionaries, and you’ll make Italian food together at home, and so forth. You don’t have to actually do any of these things. If you want to have a fling with a woman you just have to sell the idea that she’s going to have a great time. If she thinks of…

The Dinner and a Movie Date is Dead, and Here’s Why

While a lot of people used to be pretty into the whole idea of taking their date out to a movie and dinner as a hookup, that whole concept is pretty much dead nowadays. There are a lot of reasons for this, and those reasons should be acknowledged before you try to drag your hookup out into this kind of cliched, old-fashioned date. She really isn’t going to enjoy this kind of scenario, so make sure you skip it, and really think of other ways to make her enjoy her evening out with her. Trust us, there are many of them, so you don’t need to be stuck in this old cliche. The Movie Crowd is Too Young Movie theatre dates are honestly for the younger crowd. Whenever you hear about a guy bringing his girlfriend out on a dinner and a movie date, they’re usually in high school. This isn’t really the kind of mature, intimate atmosphere that you’re looking for on your hookup, and that’s why we highly recommend that you skip the whole theatre idea, and go for something classier and more high-brow. The other thing is that if you’re watching a movie and things start getting hot and heavy, you’re really not going to be able…

The Advantage of Meeting Women Online: Avoid Striking out at Bars

There’s nothing worse than going through the effort of going out to a bar or club and chatting up women only to ultimately be ignored or rejected. You might wind up drinking your sorrows away or just generally feeling bad about yourself, especially if she was the only woman you had your eye on that night. Using online dating sites to meet women is a great way to combat this kind of rejection. You may have avoided dating sites or personals in the past because you thought they don’t really work, or you may have heard less than stellar rumours about dating sites. Whatever the case is, there are some big benefits to adding a dating site to your daily routine. It Takes Pressure Off of You If you’re the kind of guy that gets easily nervous when trying to approach and talk to women in person, then dating sites and personals are probably a much better choice for you. You might still feel some anxiety when first messaging a woman on a dating site, but it’s almost nothing like the pressure of walking up to women in person to try and break the ice and introduce yourself. Since you won’t have the pressures of seeing someone in person, you…

Stop Snapping Selfies: The Best Dating Profile Pictures

The pictures that you have on your profile will make a huge difference in whether or not women will choose to message you. Because of this, having the best profile pictures possible is immensely important when you start to date online. You might have plenty of pictures on your social media site profiles that you think will do the trick, but you should think twice before slapping any old selfie onto your page. There are some types of pictures that are much better than others, so you should be conscious of what kinds of pictures you choose to use. Stay Away From Selfies If you take a picture with your phone in the bathroom mirror, that’s fine. But it should never go on your dating profile. Women who see pictures that are obviously selfies are not going to be impressed and they might not even respond to your messages or choose to message you in the first place. Remember that selfies can be defined by basically any kind of picture you take with your phone that shows mostly your face. Selfies are usually taken at an angle that makes it obvious you are holding the camera with your arms stretched out so you can take a picture of yourself. Selfies…

Spotting Women on Dating Sites Who Have No Interest in Meeting Guys

One of the most frustrating aspects of trying to meet women online is the rate at which your messages will be ignored. That, or the woman you chat with winds up having no interest in meeting up with you or going out with you. This can discourage a lot of guys from the online dating scene, but this doesn’t necessarily need to put you off of the idea altogether. There are some women who just don’t want to meet guys online, and if you learn to spot them by browsing their profiles you will be able to avoid sending them messages and make your dating experience a lot less frustrating. She Barely Has Any Pictures A woman who’s seriously looking to meet guys or have a relationship will have plenty of pictures of herself on her profile. This is obviously a strong point to any profile because it allows the interested party to really have a look at what the other person looks like. If the girl you’re looking at only has one picture or even none at all, chances are very high that she isn’t actually looking to meet guys. She might have only made the account to look at other people’s profiles, not because she wants to actually…

Single Dads: Things You Shouldn’t Do When Dating

Single dads may not be aware of it, but many of them have it a lot easier than single mothers when it comes to dating. Most men aren’t too thrilled with the idea of dating a woman with children, whereas many women seem perfectly fine with it. The problem single dads run into, however, is what they put in their dating profiles when trying to attract women. Your dating profile is all about your tone and if you tone comes off the wrong way, you are going to scare women away whether you’re a single father or not. What you want to do is highlight why women should date you even though you’re a single dad, and it may not be as difficult as you think. Don’t Share Your Life Story On Your Profile We know it may be tempting to tell potential dates exactly what happened between you and the mother of your children all at one time, but you shouldn’t do this. Women do not need to know what happened that resulted with you being a single dad right away. This is something that should be explained during a date. You also do not need to explain how often you have your children or whether or not they…

Signs That You’re Only a Rebound

Most people have advice for a woman who’s a rebound. She’s been used as a way to get back into the wild dating game by some guy who wasn’t mature enough for her. But they aren’t the only ones who have to deal with this problem. Women can turn around and use a guy just as quickly as we could to them. To avoid this you’re going to have to look through the bull crap to figure out if she’s just using to get back on her game. She’s Still Pissy It does not matter how much they say that they’re over their ex, there’s still going to be some hard feelings. She might something about all men being dogs. Surely she just forgot the “except you, of course” part. Not really. If she still seems pissy about what happened to her ex and talks about it in front of you you’re not her solid choice. She’s Overly Excited You are a great guy, but does your date talk about you like you’re a hero? If she just generally seems to dig being able to date anyone (seriously, anyone) then you might want to wonder why you’re wasting your time with her. She could be out with the worst guy…

Signs That She’s Using You to Pay Her Bills

For most women there’s going to be some sort of desire to date a guy who is at least well off. Having a man who could pay her bills is the vision of the ultimate selfish life. Unfortunately there are some women who can’t get that mush right with the actuality of dating a less than rich man. Those women are gold-diggers in your life. They have the flawless ability to get with men who might be below their normal grade just to get at your money. So the next time you might feel that your woman isn’t being the most truthful when it comes to your money, look for these signs. She’s Way Out of Your League The sad truth is that there will always be someone out of your league. Most guys tend to feel that they’re average, so they will get the average women. Pretty, funny, but overall nothing more special than other women like her. But there will be one lucky man in a million that gets a woman who’s way hotter than he is. The rule is that he has to have something unique about him. This could be a talent like music or dance. It could be the extreme charisma of the guy or…

Should You Date a Party Girl?

Dating a party girl can be exciting. It’s something about dating a woman who has no issues with kicking back and enjoying life that just makes things extremely fun. You don’t have to worry about being too serious or close-minded when dating a party girl. Usually, they’re down for a lot of different things. In fact, many men end up experiencing their first threesomes and orgies with party girls. However, dating a party girl may not be as great as some men think it will be. Before you start dating a party girl, find out if the pros outweigh the cons. Can You Handle Them? A lot of men think dating a girl who likes to party a lot will be fun. Many times, it is fun. However, depending on your age or what moment you’re at in your life, deciding to date a party girl can end up being a huge disaster. Party girls are fun. They’re wild. Many of them go out early in the afternoon and come home late in the evening. Usually they drink, and they do it often. While it may seem fun dating someone who leaves their worries behind, it may seem a lot less fun carrying them to the car or holding their…

Set the Mood: Two Places to Visit on a First Date

Deciding where to go on a first date can be a taxing experience. You want to make sure it’s someplace that both of you will enjoy. You also want to make sure that you’re choosing a place that doesn’t put too much pressure on either of you. An expensive restaurant that serves you a four-course meal may be too much for the two of you. In fact, we think that when it comes to a first date, you should skip the fancy and go straight to the familiar. Visit a Coffee Shop Going to dinner and a movie doesn’t always have to be the type of first date that you come to rely on. There are plenty of different things and places for you to visit on a first date. One of those things would be to visit a coffee shop. A coffee shop is a perfect place for a first date. Typically, you won’t have to worry about calling in reservations or waiting several minutes to be seated. A coffee shop is also offers a relaxed atmosphere that will help the two of you become comfortable with each other quicker than you would at dinner. Another great thing about a coffee shop is that it allows the two of…

Online Dating Tactics to Use

While online dating isn’t rocket science, it does require a certain technique in order for things to go well. Presenting yourself online can have the same consequences as how you present yourself in real life. This means that if you present a douchebag online persona, you’re likely going to wind up attracting only the wrong kind of women or no women at all. In order to improve your chances of dating successfully online, there are a number of tactics you can adopt will make women regard you as just the kind of guy they’re looking for. Be Self-Assured Without Being Arrogant It’s all too tempting, when filling out your online dating profile, to list all your accomplishments and positive attributes in great detail. But that’s not what your profile is for. Your profile is meant to provide women with a short, to the point list of facts about you and your life. It’s also meant to get them interested in knowing more about you. List the things you think are most important about yourself and leave out the little, inconsequential details. There will be time enough for you to share those bits about yourself later when you’re both more familiar with each other. Be Direct We’re not saying you need…

Online Dating Tactics to Avoid

There’s no cut and dried method to online dating. In that way it’s very similar to dating in the conventional way. There are things you should and shouldn’t do, of course, and a lot of them are obvious. However, if you’re unfamiliar with online dating, you may not realize all the dos and don’ts. There’s a lot of room for error online, but you’re going to want to improve your chances however you can. So read on over our list of dating tactics to avoid so that you can avoid scaring women away. Don’t Expose Yourself Immediately Unless she’s a certain kind of woman, she’s really not going to appreciate her inbox being flooded with nude photos of you the moment she replies to your inquiry. In fact, that tactic is likely to make her take every step she can to block you from ever contacting her again. There’s nothing wrong with being proud of your body and how sexy you think you are; there is something wrong with forcing it all on a woman who hasn’t expressed even the slightest indication that she’s ready to see you naked. So relax and be patient. If she’s genuinely interested in you, chances are she’ll ask for the opportunity later. Don’t be…

Non-sexual Tips to Turn Her On

When getting with a woman there’s more to it than flashing her your manly muscles. The physical side what gets most men’s attention at this point. But at some point you’re going to want to get a lady to keep around. That’s when you’ve got to get more into pleasing the other side of a woman. Women are complicated creatures that need you to turn her on sexually and emotionally. The thought of turning a woman’s feelings sounds really strange to guys, but it’s a key process you’ve got to go through. They tend to be things that are romantic clich

No Need to Fear: Online Dating Site Myths Debunked

Unsurprisingly, online dating sites receive a ton of bad press. This is unfortunate because the fact of the matter is that there are a lot of dating sites out there that are legitimately what they say there are: a place where men can meet women online. If you’ve thought about signing up on a dating site but have shied away because of all the bad things you’ve heard, take heart. We’re going to debunk a lot of the online dating site myths so that you can proceed without fear. Online Dating is Embarrassing There was a time when this might have been the case. However, times change, and with them change the perceptions of people. It’s no longer odd or unusual for people to meet online. In fact, it’s becoming more and more the norm. Online dating has become a common alternative to meeting people elsewhere. And couples who have met online aren’t shying away from that fact but are instead are factual about it. Online dating is just another aspect to how reliant our society’s become on technology. There’s no shame in liking another person and definitely no shame to be had if you’ve met them online. Online Dating is Only for the Desperate Again, this may have been…

Mirror Her Profile to Hook Up

If you want a surefire play to boost your odds with any woman into the stratosphere, listen up. Mirroring her profile is a technique that requires patience and mastery, but can have huge payoffs. If you’re comfortable generating a fresh paragraph or two of profile every time you target a new lady, this is the technique for you. Have a Special Account for This Technique You should always have more than one account. You can target different demographics of ladies just by the content and style of your profile. For this technique, you’re going to have to go highly specialized. Your usual profile is a wide net designed to catch a lot of the ladies on the dating site. This profile is finely targeted laser beam designed to help you lock on to a woman you want to hook up with. To be efficient, you should always have more than one profile in operation at a time. While your main account is passively gathering interest from the ladies you can edit this side account for the woman you want to go for. No need to miss opportunities with the rest of the women. Decide the Point of Interest You’ve selected the woman you’d like to hook up with. Don’t contact…

Meeting Women at Concerts

Most guys don’t consider concert venues to be a top lady-meeting spot, but that’s just because they’re not using it right. This can be one of the best places to meet women, and not enough men take advantage of that. Aside from clubs and bars, this is also one of the best places to cop a feel without her knowing that that’s what you’re going for. You can have your cake and eat it too if you play your cards right and stick to these tips for meeting women at concerts. Casual Bumping Concerts are crowded, and it’s only expected that you’ll have to brush against people to get where you’re going, right? Use this to your advantage and rub up against the lady you’re scouting as much as you can without getting caught. Some ladies might be offended, but with others it’s just a good conversation starter. Get going on how crowded it is and how hard it is to navigate the venue. Who knows, you might end up being invited to stay next to her, which means even more “accidental” bumping when you’re dancing to the music. If she likes you, you’ll probably have her dancing against you in no time. Wait until the end of the set…

Learning to Like Her Interests

One of the most difficult issues to overcome in a new relationship is the difference in interests. You love hockey and she hates it, she loves live theatre and you’d rather do anything else than be subject to it. If you’re both genuinely interested in each other, however, you’ll realize that your differing opinions on certain subjects really aren’t that big of a deal. If you want your relationship with her to move forward, you might consider relenting your stance on some issues, like the aforementioned live theatre. It might seem difficult, but trust us, if you want to move forward you’ll both need to make some changes. Appreciation Through Slow Exposure The fact of the matter is that a lot of time we learn to like things after we’ve been exposed to them for an extended period of time. Have you ever heard a song on the radio that you initially hated, but after months of listening to it you gradually grow to like it? It’s the same kind of concept. You might hate the fact that she loves TV shows like NCIS but if you sit down and make the effort to watch with her, over time you might even find that you start to enjoy certain elements.…

Knowing if She’s Serious

All men know it: women are hard to read. Some are so notoriously hard to read that it can actually cause panic. Does she like what you’re saying or not? Is she really looking forward to spending time with you? Having uncertainties like these can contribute in a very large way to whether or not your dates go well. Being able to tell with certainty that she’s serious about you takes away a lot of the stress. Like we said, reading women is hard. However, there are a few telltale signs that will let you know if she’s legitimately interested in what you’re offering, so keep reading. We’ve put together a definitive list to help you out. She Includes You with Her Friends and Family A woman isn’t going to bring home just any guy to meet and spend time with her family and friends. If she’s asked you to come visit the parents, it’s a positive sign that she thinks her family would like you and vice versa. The same applies with her friends. If she’s having doubts about you or is thinking about dumping you, she’s not going to take the time to introduce you to those that are closest to her. She’s making an investment by letting…

Is She Trying to Trick You into Getting Her Pregnant?

If she has convinced you to have sex with her without a condom, she might wrap her legs around you and try to prevent you from pulling out when you’re about to orgasm. Sometimes she may even beg you not to pull out. These are obvious signs that she’s trying to trick you into getting her pregnant, and the chances of her becoming pregnant have definitely increased. If you don’t want to end up being someone who is now obligated to raise a child, there are a few signs you can look for to protect yourself from her lies and tricks. She’s On the Pill and Tells You No Condom Necessary Even if a woman is using birth control pills or some other birth control method that applies strictly to women, chances are she is not going to want to rely solely on that method. When it comes to sex and a woman tells you that you don’t have to wear a condom, you may be too excited to think about exactly why she’s telling you this. Many times when a woman is trying to trick a man into getting her pregnant, she goes about reassuring him that she won’t get pregnant or can’t get pregnant. She may also try…

How to Write a Hookup Request

Even though they’ve joined sites that focus on having sex and hooking up, some women can still be bent out of shape when you try to ask them for a hookup. You need your opening pitch to be smooth and classy even if you’re asking for something naughty. The ticket to getting those flings you’ve been craving is to write a good hookup request. These tips should get you on the right track right away. Be Honest If you’re just looking for a hookup don’t act like you’re in love. You want to make this seem like a fun opportunity that you can both enjoy. You like to hookup, she likes to hookup. Together, you can have a great night and no one has to worry that they’re going to get their heart broken. You have to work five times as hard to have a one night stand with a woman who wants a relationship as you do to meet a lady who really just wants sex. Look at it this way: her wanting a relationship is your deal breaker. You’re not missing out on an opportunity for sex by being honest. You’re weeding out all the women who would waste your time and not give you what you want…

How to Tell She’s Just Playing Hard to Get

Playing hard to get is the single more annoying thing a woman can do. If she doesn’t want you, she should just come out and say so. You can take it. If she does, you’d like to move things along. These four little tips will help you tell if she’s playing hard to get, or if she’s really not interested. Makes You Wait for Every Reply Sometimes conversations are slow because she’s busy. Even a woman who loves to hookup doesn’t always have the time to hang around online all day. Occasional slow replies are probably genuine. What you want to be on the lookout for are consistently very slow replies. If she’s always making you wait five or six minutes between replies she’s probably faking it. She Competes with Other Women If you want to test how casually she feels, mention other women to her. If she really doesn’t care about you that much, you’ll find that she doesn’t care about other women you bring up. If you mention a coworker Lauren, for example, a jealous (that is, interested) woman will want to know about Lauren. What’s she like? Do you have fun with her? If she cares enough to ask these questions you can be sure that she’s…

How to Make Your Dating Profile Catch Her Interest

It can often be difficult enough to get women to respond to you on dating sites even if you send them what you think is the perfect first message. While you may think that these women are just ignoring you, it’s a high possibility that they are actually visiting your profile and deciding not to respond after reading what you have on it. There are classic mistakes you can make on your profile to make a woman decide not to return your message. The biggest mistake you can make is having a profile that bores her, so there are a few tips you should keep in mind when you want to make sure you catch her attention. Don’t Skimp Out On Certain Sections The quickest way to make a woman turn away from your profile is by not having certain sections filled out. No matter how stupid or worthless you might think a section is, women are not going to message a guy back if their page is half empty. Try to write something down for each section just so you can have something there. A woman who scrolls quickly down a page that has nearly no text on it is not going to bother reading what is there, much…

How to Compliment an Older Woman

When you’re hooking up with an older woman it can be hard to know what to say. “Hey, you look 32, not 38!” If you want to be able to compliment your cougar playmate without shooting yourself in the foot, there are a couple simple rules that you should be following. These will let her know that you appreciate her fine form while keeping you out of the dog house. Don’t Focus on Beauty Let’s face the facts. Anything that looks good on your cougar would have looked better at 22. She probably looks really awesome for her age. That phrase is always hovering around older women. She’s hip “for her age.” She’s beautiful “for her age.” She’s sick of hearing it, and the truth is that she always will. Even if you just tell her that she’s gorgeous, she’ll have all of society to remind her that she’s kept it tight but she’s getting on in years. If you try to compliment her by only focusing on her beauty you’re not going to get very far. You need to change things up and not remind her that her looks are all she has. Compliment Her Confidence Women who are past their youth want to be complimented on how far…

How to Compliment a Nerdy Woman

You can tell her that she’s beautiful, but it’s not going to sweep her off her feet. With nerdy being the new hottie there are tons of hot women confessing to being sci-fi loving, computer coding, tv show obsessive ladies. They’re still hot. You still want to score with them. If you want your flattery to get you anywhere, you’ll skip the standard lines about her eyes and pull out these gems instead. A compliment is only as good as how many points it scores you. Pretend Her Fan Theories Are Genius Once you find her favorite TV show, you’re going to find that she loves to talk about it. She’s got all these theories she’s found online, fan ideas and fan theories, and most of them will be rubbish. They’ll be wishful thinking supported by plot holes and throwaway lines that you definitely know the writers just tossed out for fun or to make a joke. You’re going to have to bite the bullet and tell her that they’re amazing. They’re the best ideas you’ve ever heard. She should be a head writer for that show. Most nerd girls these days are at least part time “media analysts.” She’s going to have a lot of theories and a lot…

How to Be Persistent (Without Being Sleazy)

Women these days can’t stand guys who can’t take a hint, and are going to turn you down if they feel the slightest bit threatened. That doesn’t mean that you have to give up without a fight, but it does mean that you have to be a little craftier about it. Instead of being upfront and just refusing to leave her alone, play it cool and try one (or all) of these methods instead. They’re guaranteed to keep her around without tipping her off that you don’t want to take no for an answer. Be Sneaky A lady is going to catch on if you aren’t willing to let her go, and she’s going to start getting freaked out fast. Save her the trouble by finding little ways to keep her around. Offer to buy her a drink, start telling her a story, or have her tell you a story instead. While she does that, try to slip your number into her phone or try asking her to give you her own. Some women are willing to give theirs out. If you’re worried that the number is fake, read it back and change one of the numbers. If she gave you the real number, then she’ll be quick to correct…

How Should You Approach Her?

Deciding how to approach women requires a bit of thought and careful planning. There are a few considerations that you should take in mind when you are trying to figure out how to approach women. There are many factors that play into how you should approach women. Some of them deal with where you are or the type of women you want to approach. Before you start introducing yourself to women, make sure you are increasing your chances of having a good outcome by learning how you should approach women. Consider Your Surroundings If you’re at a club or a bar, you will want to take in the mood of the club. If it seems like no one is really dancing or enjoying themselves, you may want to approach cheerfully to set the mood. Approach her with confidence. Do not rely on the awkward routine or the shy guy mannerisms to reel her in. Instead, you will have to convince her that you are going to be her savior for the night. Bring the party to her by making her smile and laugh. She needs to forget all about how boring the club is and only focus on you. If you are incapable of doing this right away, you may…

How Being with a Cougar Makes You a Better Lover

Cougars aren’t just easy scores for a hot young man. They are mature, experienced, sexual women who are actually offering you something really great: the ability to be a better lover. Hook up with a cougar a few times and you’ll grow in your confidence and skills in bed. She’ll put you through your paces. By the time you go back to ladies your own age, you will blow their minds with how good you are. Cougars Make You Work for It Once a woman is out of her twenties she doesn’t feel the need to fake an orgasm anymore. She’s pretended for boyfriends, maybe even for a husband at this point. If it’s not real, she’s not going to protect your feelings. This means that when you rock her world you know she’s not blowing smoke. It also means that being with a cougar is a great way to field test some moves you’ve been thinking of, but haven’t tried yet. If these moves fail to impress then you can fall back on the old stand bys to finish the job. This also means that you don’t blow your chance at a fling with a hot, young woman because you weren’t sure if a move was going to be…

Hot Wax Play and Your Hookup

You’ve probably heard about the fun and excitement of hot wax play in the bedroom at least once. That’s good, because trust us, it can be a ton of fun to involve in the bedroom, and it can also be something different and enjoyable than your usual bedroom antics. This means that you’re really going to be able to bring something fun into the mix that you hadn’t before, but it is important that you really discuss this sort of thing with your hookup before it actually happens. You need to be able to make sure that she’s into it, and that you both are going to enjoy it before you bring hot wax into the bedroom scene. What Kinds of Wax Should I Use? A lot of people wonder if there’s a special kind of wax when it comes to hot wax play, and the answer is both yes and no. You can actually buy candles that are designed to melt a lot more easily and generate more wax for this sole purpose, but you can still use regular candles as well to get the wax that you want. You just have to be careful with putting an open flame near your hookup, obviously, but once you’ve got that…

Finding a Woman With Your Kink

The toughest part about finding someone sexually compatible with you is finding one who shares your kinks. Everyone has something different that they like, but some are stranger than others. Don’t worry – no matter what you’re into, you aren’t alone. There are plenty of women out there who are just dying to share that special kink with you, it’s just a matter of seeking them out. Luckily for you, the Internet and your community will make it easier than you ever dreamed. Online Resources Kink-specific websites are your best friend. No, that’s not an exaggeration – you need to spend all your time feeling out your area’s population of kinky women, and these sites are your key to finding everything you need. If for some reason you can’t find a site for your specific kink, it’s not the end of the world. Sites like Craigslist make it easy to post listings where you can spell out exactly what you’re looking for. Simply make your post and wait for the flood of ladies to come in, and the best part is that you don’t have to go through the awkward process of telling them your kink when they get to you. The only thing to watch out for here is…

Erogenous Zones to Use Vibrators That You’d Never Expect

While most vibrators are basically designed for clitoral stimulation, they don’t just have to be used for that explicit purpose. Vibrators can be used on every single area of the body, and if there’s a particularly sensitive area that you discover on your woman, you should really go for it. Some places, however, men just don’t seem to think of, and that’s a shame, because honestly, they’re very obvious. These are the places that your woman wants you to pick up that vibrator and play with, and that’s why you should definitely take the time to do so. Make her feel like a pampered princess with little effort–that’s really what vibrators are supposed to be used for. Her Neck Unsurprisingly, the neck is an incredible erogenous zone. That’s why she always wants you to kiss and bite it and suck on it, and so it shouldn’t be a surprise that a vibrator tracing up along it feel be extremely good. We highly recommend using a bullet vibe for this sort of thing, as otherwise, it just gets kind of weird–but a bullet vibe is pinpoint vibrators and attention, and it will really make her start to shiver when you trace little patterns along the back of her neck with it.…

But iEditing Your Profile Pictures without It Being Too Obvious

Editing your profile pictures is an easy way to make sure you look your best when trying to attract women, which is sometimes not a luxury you have when meeting women in person at bars or clubs. Once you start digitally editing your pictures, you might find yourself tempted to edit them to the point where you almost look like a different person. Chances are you’ve met a woman who wound up looking completely different from her profile picture, and you know how disappointing and annoying that could be, so you don’t want to do the same thing yourself. There are ways you can edit your pictures to look better without it being painfully obvious. Stick to Minor Edits The most important thing to keep in mind when trying to edit your pictures is that you should make the changes subtle so that women don’t do a double take when they meet you in person. The best method of digital correction is to make subtle changes and corrections to your appearance so that they aren’t easily spotted in real life. Smoothing out your complexion and editing out minor flaws like freckles you don’t personally like are both good methods of editing that should be subtle enough to make women more…

Ease Her Mind to Open Up Her Body

Having sex means so much more to a woman than it can to a man. We’re stoked to be able to even put it in a woman, but they’re thinking about way more than we would. Is this the right time? Is he the right guy? Do my thighs look big in this position? The list could go on. Because of this they’re going to worry about having sex with you. Even if they love it, they still cherish it more than many guys. That makes it a little bit harder to crack that shell and get into the intimate zone. Before you can have sex with her, you’ll have to get through her emotions. Turn Her On to Your Insides Before you even try to start showing off your body you’ve got to show off your mind. Getting her to fall for you enough to get physical can happen easily if you go out of your way to do compassionate things for others. Leaving large tips, helping random people, and generally having feelings give her little pieces of you to attach to. She’ll feel safe with you since you’re so nice to others and the fact that you can see something and react to it shows off that you’re…

Don’t Make Your Messages Sound Desperate

Sending messages to women on dating profiles isn’t as difficult as it may seem. Many times, you just have to take some time to figure out what to write and how to write it. Because you aren’t allowed the option of using common gestures, it may be harder to get your point across. However, there are certain things you should definitely avoid when sending messages to women. No One Wants Me When you begin the process of creating your dating profile and sending messages, make sure that you are not appearing too desperate when you’re sending women messages. One thing some men fail to understand is that women do not want a desperate man. They also are completely aware of when you’re trying to trick them by attempting to tug at their heartstrings. An example of this would be starting off with a message that already tells women that you think lowly of yourself and that you know she isn’t worth your time. You should avoid sending messages such as: “Well, you’re obviously way to beautiful and perfect to be interested in me, but…” or “I know I’m probably not the type of guy you’d normally go for, but…” These types of messages are annoying to women. They receive them…

Dating the Modern Feminist: Don’t Ruin Your Chances

Many men want to runaway when they find out that the woman they’re interest in is a feminist. However, just because a woman is a feminist does not mean that she automatically hates men and everything that they stand for. If you aren’t familiar with modern feminist, you may imagine angry women who think that everything wrong in the world is due to men. While it is true that some feminists still feel this way, most modern feminists simply want rights to be equal for everyone. Get Your Traditional Values Out of Here One of the quickest ways to offend a modern feminist is by showing her that you still prefer traditional roles. If you’re just trying to get laid, you should definitely keep your mouth shut about where you think a woman’s place is. If she says something you don’t agree with, simply nod you head and let her keep talking. Also, you will need to keep in mind that just because she is a feminist doesn’t mean you have to abandon all of your manners or your upbringing. If you think because she’s a feminist that it isn’t necessary for you to hold the door open for her or pull out her chair, think again. While you don’t…

Creating the Best Dating Profile

Making sure you create the best dating profile is important to finding and hooking up with several different women. While dating profiles can be time consuming, the good thing about them is that if you make a good one, it betters your chances of picking up women almost instantly. Take Your Time Hundreds of men sign up for dating profiles and end up writing only the minimum amount of words required to make their accounts active. Usually, this involves writing a couple of sentences for each section of your dating profile. We know that some of you do not feel like filling out section after section with no guarantee that women will even be interested in you, but it is a bad move to not take your dating profile seriously. Most men go to a woman’s dating profile, look at her photos, and then they may skim over what she has written in her profile. Women do the opposite. While she may initially look at your photos, she will move on to read what you have written in your profile. Even if she doesn’t find you particularly good looking, if she feels like the two of you will be compatible after reading your profile, she will be interested in you,…

Be Her Adventure – How to Keep Your Dates Coming Back For More

In the Wild World of dating, getting a first date is only the beginning. What’s really important is to impress her and have her coming back for more. It’s about learning the subtle art of women and the one thing that they always crave – Adventure! Something new and exciting, and that’s exactly what you need to provide every time to have her begging for you. Classy Appearance Time to look a little extra flashy. Be that guy women want to be seen with! It’s not about your looks, but how you present yourself. Make it look like you care about yourself and your appearance, women like to know you’re making the effort. Try new cologne, a bright tie matching the theme of your adventure, and keep it classy. It is always better to be over dressed than under dressed for your outing. Even something as simple as going to a movie seems more exciting when you wear a fine suit and make your lady feel special for being with someone as classy as you. Before you go on the date you have to get the date, so make sure you also dress your best when asking her out. It’s good to give her key details to get her interested,…

Acting Charming Even if You Really Aren’t

When you try to meet women in bars or clubs or even through online dating services, being charming and cool is a huge aspect of making sure you have a successful conversation that will hopefully lead up to a hookup. This can be an extremely difficult and nerve wracking aspect of dating if you are not the type of guy who finds it easy to be confident and charming. Being charming is still an undeniably important trait for dating, so learning how to fake it until you make it is of utmost importance. If you follow some simple steps, you should be able to act charming even if you actually aren’t. Be Able to Poke Fun at Yourself If you are naturally shy, chances are you are going to stumble or stutter or do something else that would normally embarrass you and make you give up on talking to women at all. However, if you learn how to be able to laugh at your own mistakes instead of internalizing them and becoming anxious about them, you can come off as charming and real. Women love guys who are able to laugh at their own mistakes, since it shows they aren’t too serious or brooding. If you can poke fun at…

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