Sending messages to women on dating profiles isn’t as difficult as it may seem. Many times, you just have to take some time to figure out what to write and how to write it. Because you aren’t allowed the option of using common gestures, it may be harder to get your point across. However, there are certain things you should definitely avoid when sending messages to women.
No One Wants Me
When you begin the process of creating your dating profile and sending messages, make sure that you are not appearing too desperate when you’re sending women messages. One thing some men fail to understand is that women do not want a desperate man. They also are completely aware of when you’re trying to trick them by attempting to tug at their heartstrings. An example of this would be starting off with a message that already tells women that you think lowly of yourself and that you know she isn’t worth your time. You should avoid sending messages such as: “Well, you’re obviously way to beautiful and perfect to be interested in me, but…” or “I know I’m probably not the type of guy you’d normally go for, but…” These types of messages are annoying to women. They receive them so much that they already know what you’re trying to do. Do not be surprised if she doesn’t reply back to you.
Another thing you shouldn’t do is talk about all of your flaws or compare yourself to other men. For example, if she mentions that she is ridiculously attracted to Johnny Depp, you shouldn’t mention in your message to her that you know you don’t look like Johnny Depp or, that you aren’t rich like he is, or anything else of that nature. She is already fully aware that you aren’t Johnny Depp and comparing yourself to him makes it not only seem like you are desperate, but that you are trying to fault her for being attracted to a celebrity.
Women Don’t Want a Nice Guy
Another thing you definitely need to avoid doing when it comes to sending messages is complaining about how you’re a nice guy, but that women don’t seem to be interested in you. Women hate when guys refer to themselves as nice guys who get the bad end of the stick. Nice guys do not whine about women not being interested in them. When you constantly talk about how you’re a nice guy and how women only want to date men who treat them badly, you make yourself sound immature. Women who receive these types of messages will automatically think that you are controlling and that you want things to always go your way. They will definitely not be interested in you if you behave in this manner.
Remember, women do not want to interact with men who seem too depressed, angry, or desperate. Try to make your messages sound positive and upbeat even if you feel the opposite. You are trying to present yourself as someone who is worthy of her time, not someone who is going to make her uncomfortable.