Deciding how to approach women requires a bit of thought and careful planning. There are a few considerations that you should take in mind when you are trying to figure out how to approach women. There are many factors that play into how you should approach women. Some of them deal with where you are or the type of women you want to approach. Before you start introducing yourself to women, make sure you are increasing your chances of having a good outcome by learning how you should approach women.
Consider Your Surroundings
If you’re at a club or a bar, you will want to take in the mood of the club. If it seems like no one is really dancing or enjoying themselves, you may want to approach cheerfully to set the mood. Approach her with confidence. Do not rely on the awkward routine or the shy guy mannerisms to reel her in. Instead, you will have to convince her that you are going to be her savior for the night. Bring the party to her by making her smile and laugh. She needs to forget all about how boring the club is and only focus on you. If you are incapable of doing this right away, you may want to pass up on the opportunity to prevent embarrassing yourself.
If the atmosphere of the club is a good one and she seems to be enjoying herself, you won’t have to use too much effort with impressing her. You can also use the shy and awkward role if that is something that you are comfortable with. Make sure you flatter her with compliments that don’t focus only on her body. Do not come to her with poetry or quotes from dead authors. If you do want to give a quote, make one up yourself. Ask her if she knows who said it, when she doesn’t, tell her it was you. You should make sure that the quote isn’t that great to get a smile on her face. Laugh it off and then start talking. If you’ve done it correctly, she won’t be apprehensive of you.
Skip the Pickup Lines
Unless you have either come up with a great pickup line or a really bad one to make her laugh, you should avoid using pickup lines. While you may see them used in television and movies, relying on these typically poorly executed lines will almost always backfire on you. Instead of using a pickup line, try observing something amusing taking place at the club and commenting on it to her. You can also try the here goes nothing approach and just start chatting. The worst-case scenario is that she won’t be interested, but chances are she’ll be so flattered, she’ll allow you the opportunity to convince her to give you a chance.
Approaching women isn’t really difficult as long as you think about it in advance. Most women prefer confidence, but some are OK with shy and awkward. Make sure not to be too cocky or to suddenly gain confidence when she shows interest in you. She will realize it was all an act.