Women these days can’t stand guys who can’t take a hint, and are going to turn you down if they feel the slightest bit threatened. That doesn’t mean that you have to give up without a fight, but it does mean that you have to be a little craftier about it. Instead of being upfront and just refusing to leave her alone, play it cool and try one (or all) of these methods instead. They’re guaranteed to keep her around without tipping her off that you don’t want to take no for an answer.
A lady is going to catch on if you aren’t willing to let her go, and she’s going to start getting freaked out fast. Save her the trouble by finding little ways to keep her around. Offer to buy her a drink, start telling her a story, or have her tell you a story instead. While she does that, try to slip your number into her phone or try asking her to give you her own. Some women are willing to give theirs out. If you’re worried that the number is fake, read it back and change one of the numbers. If she gave you the real number, then she’ll be quick to correct you, whereas if it’s fake then she probably won’t remember.
If she wants to spend time with her friends, then you need to be perfectly willing to spend time with them, too. It shows her that you aren’t a possessive guy who’s going to keep her from her friends. Especially from the start, that kind of behavior is going to send up some red flags. Keep her opinion of you high by letting her do what she wants. Believe it or not, she’s going to be much more willing to come back to you if you have the decency to let her spend some time with the friends that she came with. There’ll be plenty of time for you to chat her up as the night goes on, especially if you can snag her number. You just need to be patient and then she’ll come to you – women get freaked out when you’re too into them.
Along the same lines as not being too into her, you need to be a little cold to get her attention. Women don’t want to stay with someone who’s going to dote on her and give her everything right from the get-go. Believe it or not, she wants to have to work for your affection and to feel like she’s earned it. If you come on too strong, she’s going to back off. Instead, back off when she starts really getting into you. It shows her that you aren’t desperate to have her, and that you could have any other women at the bar that night. It’ll make her work harder to get you so that another woman doesn’t come up and steal you away. This is a great way to make yourself a hot commodity without even trying.