Most people have advice for a woman who’s a rebound. She’s been used as a way to get back into the wild dating game by some guy who wasn’t mature enough for her. But they aren’t the only ones who have to deal with this problem. Women can turn around and use a guy just as quickly as we could to them. To avoid this you’re going to have to look through the bull crap to figure out if she’s just using to get back on her game.
She’s Still Pissy
It does not matter how much they say that they’re over their ex, there’s still going to be some hard feelings. She might something about all men being dogs. Surely she just forgot the “except you, of course” part. Not really. If she still seems pissy about what happened to her ex and talks about it in front of you you’re not her solid choice.
She’s Overly Excited
You are a great guy, but does your date talk about you like you’re a hero? If she just generally seems to dig being able to date anyone (seriously, anyone) then you might want to wonder why you’re wasting your time with her. She could be out with the worst guy possible and she’s just being proud that she’s not alone. “Look at how healed I am! I don’t need him anymore” attitudes will not make for a solid relationship.
Even if she’s trying to complicate what she’s got going on she would never compare you with her ex normally. All talk of “me ex…” should be kicked to the curb. Those types of women don’t deserve you.
She’s In Denial
If she’s in denial about her feelings for her ex then take a look at her reactions. Mention your relationship status with her ex and see how jumbled she is. If she still claims that they’re just friends or very awkwardly say that there’s nothing there then she is using you. You are an active guy who’s interesting in her so it makes her feel less crappy after being dumped. Therefore, you can be whatever kind of guy and she’s fine with that.
She’s Jumping Your Bones
Jumping your bones is an expression that means that she’s literally jumping you for sex. Sometimes she might want to get low at an awkward time or in an awkward place. Other times you might be in an angry mood and she’s trying to get you to sleep with her. Not caring for anything other than the physical might sound pretty good to you, but it gets boring and annoying after all. Jumping ahead of the talk and getting you in bed as quickly as she can really just means that you’re being used to make her feel better as a person. Women like to feel the attention of a man so much that it can emphasize how she feels about herself. You might be getting used to fuel her ego.