When Should You Approach Her?

Deciding when to approach a woman can sometimes be tricky. You want to make sure that you come in at just the right time. You also want to make sure that there is nothing that stands in your way of making a good first impression.

Wait Until Her Friends Are Preoccupied

"Do not approach her when she is talking to her friends"

“Do not approach her when she is talking to her friends”

When you see a woman that you want to try getting to know, you should wait until her friends are busy before deciding to approach her. Some women like to show off and give men a hard time when their friends surround them. One of the reasons is because they want to appear cool in front of their friends. Another reason is because one or more of her friends may not find you attractive or desirable and the woman you’re interested in may feel pressured to turning you away to please her friends.

When you see a woman that you want to try picking up, keep a close eye on her, but keep your distance. Try to make eye contact with her. If she stares back at you and she seems interested, smile at her but don’t approach her. If you notice that her friends wander off or that she moves away from them for a while, you should make your move. If the situation involves her moving away from her friends, make sure that the two of you are in an area where her friends cannot observe you. If her friends have wondered off, go over to her. However, you will want to make your move quickly. You can speed things up by already having your number written down for her, or by knowing exactly what you’re going to say to her when you approach her. Play the conversation out in your head to better your chances of impressing her.

After the Second Drink

"Approach her in a nice and decent way"

“Approach her in a nice and decent way”

If you’re the type that likes to buy lady drinks, you should wait until after she’s finished the second drink to approach her. The first drink will flatter her. The second drink will get her to loosen up. Do not buy her any more drinks than two, especially if she is with her friends. They will think that you are a predator who is trying to get their friend drunk so that you can take advantage of her.

Once she’s finished the second drink, make your move. If she’s interested in you, she should be pretty flirty, so make sure to charm her and don’t forget to get her number instead of leaving her with yours. If you can’t avoid talking to her without her friends around, you should say something that shows that you prefer them to be close by because you know women are always protective about their friends.

When you approach a woman, make sure to always play it smooth unless you are going for awkward because you think she will find it charming. Do not pretend as if you’ll know you’ll get her interest automatically, but also do not appear to be lacking self-confidence. Most importantly, don’t show off. Women tend to hate that.


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